Subject: I feel compelled to share this with you
Dear [Name],
I have something special to share with you today. If you don't know John Ruhlin, he was a [personal friend, mentor, colleague etc.] of mine and the world's leading authority on building referral-based businesses through strategic relationships.
He passed away unexpectedly in August of 2024, leaving behind his wife and four daughters.
John's story is remarkable. He started as a farm boy from Ohio who milked goats and became one of the most influential voices in business relationship-building. He discovered that word-of-mouth isn't just the best form of advertising—it's the cheapest and most effective. As he often said, "Advertising weighs ounces, but trust weighs tons."
Before his passing, John was working on his most important book yet, Beyond GIFT·OLOGY. This wasn't just another business book—it was the culmination of his life's work, teaching what he called the RPT System: a step-by-step playbook for building genuine referral partnerships that generate consistent business growth.
What made John special wasn't just his business acumen—it was how he approached relationships. He believed successful referral partnerships weren't about transactions, but about building R.I.C.H. relationships: Reciprocal (both parties feel like they're winning), Influential (they hear your best ideas first), Connected (shared values), and Humble (they ask more questions than they preach).
John taught that the "relationship snowball" was the world's greatest marketing plan: start where you are, exceed expectations, make friendships, and get wonderfully introduced to new networks of previously inaccessible individuals. He showed businesses how to move from "referrals by accident" to "referrals by design" through systematic relationship nurturing.
His friend Cameron Herold, whom you may know, once said he could pinpoint within 10 feet of where he was standing when he first met John 17 years ago—that's the kind of lasting impression John left on people.
Through the incredible contributions of his vast network—the very people whose lives he touched—this book is now being released to the world. It's a testament to the power of the relationships he built and the impact he had on so many lives.
I'm helping spread the word about Beyond GIFT·OLOGY because John's referral system changed my business, and I believe it can change yours too. In a world where traditional marketing has constraints—budgets, algorithms, and customer skepticism—John showed a better way to grow through strategic referral partnerships.
If you'd like to learn more about this transformative approach or simply support John's family, I encourage you to pre-order his book today at www.beyondgiftology.com.
If you feel called to help spread John’s message, you can also:
- Share your thoughts on social media or with your own email list
- Write an honest review on Amazon after launch
- Gift to the book to anyone who might benefit
John used to say that "life gives to the giver and takes from the taker." He lived this principle every day, and even after his passing, he continues to give through this book. I'm confident his message can change your life just as it changed mine and countless others.
With gratitude,
[Name]
P.S. If you do end up purchasing and reading the book, please let me know what you think by reaching out via email. I'd love to hear about the impact John is continuing to make and will be sure to forward any kind words on to his family and friends.